Reconciling My Fate

Caution: Work In Process


The upside of vacation is time to think. The downside of vacation is time to think. And I’ve been doing more thinking than usual. That usually gets my husband nervous. And for good reason. Toss&hellip

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Head In the Clouds


Will be mostly offline this week to take in some clean mountain air and beautiful vistas with the best guy on the planet bar none. Hiking at altitude (8,500 feet) and romantic wine and cheese&hellip

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looking back

Looking Back At How I Got Here


15-44. That’s a category I just left in the dust. Normally I don’t pay much attention to age-related categories but this is a biggie. It’s the standard measure of child-bearing age. The U.S. Census bureau&hellip

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From The Mouths of Babes


What can you possibly tell a persistent four-year-old about infertility? The short answer: nothing. What can she teach you? Now there’s some fodder for a blog post… Imagine me sitting with my new BFF, an&hellip

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looking back

When Nature Calls…


… it’s not as if you can just say you’re busy washing your hair. Taming biology is not quite as simple as many opining on the New York Times website seem to think. There were&hellip

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Pamela Jeanne: Becoming Me


Pamela Jeanne. That’s the name on my birth certificate. And it’s ‘Pamela Jeanne: This is You Life’ that I hear most often around birthdays and anniversaries. That’s right, my friends! Dim the lights and cue&hellip

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What Color Am I Now?


Transitions and turning points? Well, they’re hard to maneuver. One foot in the all-too-familiar world you’re living in and the other reaching across (in my case, tentatively) to get a toehold in the new world,&hellip

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