Those on the other side

Healing Salon: Some Unfinished Business

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Welcome back. Pardon me while I tidy up a bit.  I need to get some of the dust and cobwebs off the furniture so I can offer those involved in the Healing Salon a place to sit,&hellip

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Oh No You Di’int!

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Well, well. well! It’s been a while my dear Momzilla folk, but not nearly long enough. There I was in Infertility Rehab doing my best to mind my own bid’ness and then you come back&hellip

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The Best Gift of All

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Luna has written an eloquent post called An Open Letter. It captures the complex set of emotions that befall infertile women when they hear about the pregnancies of others — whether those pregnancies came easily&hellip

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Parenting: The New Competitive Sport???

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Just when I worry that I’ll run out of things to write about here, something inevitably lands in my lap. When I tuned into a national news program earlier this week I was appalled to&hellip

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If You Make It, Please Do a Good Job Parenting

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The past week vacationing near a lake has been a test of my patience for stranger’s children. Yes, kids get excited and super-charged by long summer days and too much ice cream. Yes, they should&hellip

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Do I Let Them? Do They Know How?

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Each day I have a new appreciation for how difficult the concept of infertility is both for those of us living it as well as those who are not but don’t know how to best&hellip

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Is it That Time Already??

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 Here we are April 12 — more than a month, 32 days to be exact — from the holiday second only to Christmas for making me feel bad. Yes, the first mother’s day ad has&hellip

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The Dialogue Continues

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In case you haven’t been keeping up with the comments coming in from my “social experiment,” I’d like to highlight a few from women who don’t normally hang out in the infertility community but did&hellip

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In the DFZ – The De-Fertilized Zone

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Since I posted this Tuesday night, some great comments have come in, please check them out below…The DMZ — or Demilitarized Zone — for those not conversant in military acronyms describes a no-man’s land. It’s&hellip

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A Confession About Newborns

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Just after one of my best friends delivered her third child we got together for lunch.  Her pregnancy had been totally unexpected and a complete shock to her and her husband. Her doctor had all&hellip

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